Re: Death by Hatred

Hey lovies.
I have one Question.

Do you still remember your first date? First hug? First kiss?

Yes? No? Well I do.

I'm not sure about you guys, but it is impossible to forget.
She/he may not be your gf/bf but that person will forever stay in one corner in your heart.
No matter how long you wait, how many date you went for, whomever you are with currently, your first date will always stay in your heart.

Why this post?
Maybe you can give me the answer..

Sometimes You Have to Think Of the Opposite Side :)

He’s not perfect. You aren’t either, and the two of you will never be perfect. But if he can make you laugh at least once, causes you to think twice, and if he admits to being human and making mistakes, hold onto him and give him the most you can. He isn’t going to quote poetry, he’s not thinking about you every moment, but he will give you a part of him that he knows you could break. Don’t hurt him, don’t change him, and don’t expect for more than he can give. Don’t analyze. Smile when he makes you happy, yell when he makes you mad, and miss him when he’s not there. Love hard when there is love to be had. Because perfect guys don’t exist, but there’s always one guy that is perfect for you.

It's Okay, I Promise I'd Help You Right :')

So this is what you've decided. Isolate me from yourself. Not even looking at me. Not speaking to me. *sniffs* Maybe this is the best way. It poisons me to allow this to happen. But if by this way I can avoid from getting you hurt. I'd rather be poisoned then :')

But as long as you are safe, happy and unharmed then I won't mind. You deserve better than a player :')

System Restore

Who am I again??

Let's go through the chronology.
A boy, that was like what form 1?
A teenager, up until form 3.
A guy with all the fantasy of becoming the perfect gentleman.
A gentleman.
(the one dark moment)
A zombie.
A spiteful ball of rage.
An actor.
(the deleted scenes)



A player. A player. A player.

Be untrustworthy. Sweet mouth all the way through. Nobody will hurt you.
But she have does hold the power. Swallow your ego. Stay optimist. Once you feel hurt by words, stop immediately. Take deep breaths. Remember, you are the player, not the game. The game may be over, but the player must be prepared for the next game. You choose what game to play.

Why am I a player? Because once upon a time, I was a loyal, hopeful, trustful, dedicated gentleman.

Why this post? Because I am bored of..........

Ping P0ng! get it?

I used to think that we all have that someone in our life that we will meet, a person who will accept us for who we are, the one that fills our criteria of a husband/wife. I bet a lot of you out there thought of the same thing, but  did you ever thought of finding a person of the opposite nature?

Someone that you feel like "Ugh she/he's not my type..." mostly people take the easy route out, BAIL. Just never took the chance to get to know the person.

Okay sometimes you realized about the incompatibility AFTER you got to know that person deeper. So? Tidak pernah ke korang terfikir untuk membantu orang tu memperbaiki diri dia dan pada masa yang sama diri korang sendiri? 

For example, a guy met a girl, it just happen to be that they are close, really close. The guy likes the girl, confessed his feeling and it went well. Except one thing. The girl have a habit that the guy really really really hate, let's say emm,, she likes to skip meals or, she likes to dress in ways that the guy errrr... HATE? So, in this situation, the guy advised his GF to modifies the way she styles herself in ways that is appropriate :) If the girl can take direct hits, then he should just be frank and say "Hey *insert name here*, I think your dressing is a bit too off/too much/over/inappropriate, would you like to try another style like *insert your comment here*?"

But, if the girl is a bit off a crybaby and manja or easily offended, the guy should try a different manner of speech like this "Honey, you look nice! But, i bet you'll look even super gorgeous if u wear *insert suggestion here*!" Hm, that's a way on how to say it, use your creativity. But do ask the girl change towards a better person! Not the other way around! Don't go coaxing her to change from wearing long sleeve shirts to wearing sleeveless or tubes, that makes you a f**king asshole >:(

Next, if it is the other way around, the guy is the one with a bad habit for example, he likes to smoke/flirt/or any other habit that you think is annoying (heck even a guy that drinks coke annoys certain girls). Girls, as much as a guy can sweet talk you to be with him or date him, you have the same powerful coaxing power in your words to talk the guy out of his habit. You can give the easy "Please don't *insert bad habit here* anymore?" or "Stop *bad habit* or I'll *insert blackmail here*" you can also "You know what, her boyfriend never/stopped *bad habit*! Isn't that great? She's one lucky girl aite? :) " See? There's a lot of ways to do it!  

Your words can give impact to people, so choose what to say, when, and where to say it! It gives you benefit to have a relationship that improve yourself and your partner and not a relationship of stagnancy  where there is no improvement and long lasting effect. At least even if the relationship did not end up as your marriage, you will have a sweet memory remembering your exes as years later, you recalled that you have your current habit a better person because of them :) So, we now have a not so new way to have a relationship that regardless how it ends, it will not hurt us so much :)

Relationships, whatever it is, friends, best friends, enemies, lovers, scandals, or even that someone that you know his/her looks but not her name will pay if the GIVE&TAKE theory is done. Like playing ping pong, whether you are going against an opponent, or a wall, the ball will bounce back rite? But if you are playing with thin air, or your opponent didn't hit it back, or the wall didn't bounce the ball back, in the end, you'll get bored, and you'll stop playing, am I right?? :) 

So I want to thank all of the people who helped me improve myself intended or unintended, thanks to the people that helped me:

-Changed the way I write the letter "e"

-To love kuey tiow 

-Eat good, better, best and greater food

-Improve my manner of speech

-Challenge myself to push myself further

-To be brave and courageous

-Understand myself and others better

-Play sports better

-Unleash my true nature

-Keep my words

-Neutralize my anger

-Realize what being a man really means

-Stay vigilant and dedicated to my responsibility

-REMEMBER ALLAH AT ALL TIMES

That's all for now.. Hm! Blogging does help you to mellow out :)

#DO or DO NOT. There is no 'TRY'#