Perspective perspective~

This is not my eyes or eyelashes -_-

"Tak patut dia buat macam tu, kurang ajar tahu?"
"It's illogical, even a 5 years old can think and know it is wrong!"

You know, we never can be sure who is right, us, or the other side. We all have our way of thinking and looking at things.

Kita tak berada di tempat dia. Senang la kita cakap, "Kalau aku, takdenye aku nak buat macam dia tu".. KALAU. Tapi kita TIDAK berada di tempat dia.

Or maybe you HAD been in situation like theirs, and then you said that it was hard, you survived, but did not act as stupid as them. Well, did they eat same like you? Are their friends same as yours? Do they get education, social exposure and be treated same like you? Their hearts, are they being nourished, and given the sufficient spiritual content?

Habis tu siapa suruh dia kawan dengan orang yang macam tu? Dia memang macam tu, sial, dari dulu sama je perangai, tak nak berubah! Aku dah malas nak layan orang macam ni, dulu dia pernah jugak buat macam ni, ni dia ulang lagi. Dah keluarga dia jenis yang buat hal masing-masing, kita nak buat macam mana? Tak pa laaa, kita ni siapa nak tegur dia~

Oh, there's also the safe comment type of people. Like these: Maybe he didn't know. Maybe his family didn't live together, I'm just saying. Some people are just born like that, no offence. He did this before, I thought he changed, ah, I don't know.
And many others that comment and cover it up nice and tidy so that they did not seem like a bad person.

The thing is, it is just damn hard not to. We were raised in such society that comments and act like that. Heck even I'm one of them. This is a global problem. We think that we see things at every aspect and we are making the right call. Actually, no one can judge, right or wrong, fairly.

There is a lot of redundancy in discussions about this. And we, ourselves, choose, which side are we on. Everybody thinks that they are on the right side. People who notice that they are wrong and are adamant on their stand are just to ashamed to admit it.

We MUST try our best to be in the other person's shoe(is this correct?). Cuba la selidik dahulu, latar belakang dia, pergaulan dia, agama dia, iman dia. Semua tu beri kesan macam mana tindak balas dia terhadap sesuatu situasi tu. Kadang-kadang kita mengenali dan mengetahui lebih mengenai satu pihak dan tidak pihak yang lagi satu, itu pun beri impak dalam penilaian kita bukan?

Ambil contoh mudah. Situasi: Kawan kau hampir-hampir kena langgar lori yang dipandu laju gila.
Kena la kita tahu, macam mana, dekat mana, situasi, kronologi, keadaan sekeliling semua. Kalau ikut keterangan atas tu, rata-rata mesti pertahankan rakan sendiri habis-habisan betul? Pasti ada beberapa pendapat yang berbeza bukan? Antaranya.. Bodoh lah drebar lori tu, yang bawak laju-laju apehal, ni kan tempat awam, speed limit 20 je, sial. Kau dah nampak kan lori tu laju tak nak slow, yang kau dok rilek lenggang lagi kenapa.. Dah, dah, dia bodoh, kau ada otak, orang macam tu jangan kau cari pasal, dia yang tak habis sekolah, akal dengan sabar dia kontot, dah, dah, tok sah dok kecoh. Tak, memang dia salah, kalau bawak balai ni, mati la dia, sial betol.

Nampak? Itu pun baru satu situasi yang agak biasa. Dah ada bermacam-macam pendapat. So? Enjoy the differences! :)

The thing is, we are affected by our affiliation, interest, knowledge, affection, emotions, and so on. Is that a weakness? Yeah, sure is. But it is also strength, and originality. It is one of the things in life that helps us mature and become wiser. We are blessed with thoughts, akal, or the best term for it, عقل. Most of lliving things have brains, like humans. But to my point of view, they are not blessed with what we humans have, 'aqal. 

We have the creativity and the ability to discover, learn, and improvise. The ability to question, and the power to find the truth to answer those questions. Our minds are beyond what we know what they are capable of. We developed, from cavemen to professionals. Hut from leaves and wood thousands of years ago, now we are able to build skyscrapers from concrete, steel, and glass. We have a vast sea of creativity that never cease to expand! Building even a chair now have thousands of designs, hundreds of materials to be used, and millions of name to name them! Our brain power are so powerful, it visions great empire to reality, it theorized formula years ahead of its time, it persuades others to be calm, happy, and comfortable around us. But do remember, the brain feeds on knowledge, even as simple as how to walk or how to hold a pencil. Knowledge is power. Power may create wonders, and destroy them.

Damn, I messed up the background color. Sorry for that. Ahem, this is what I would like to convey in my post. Please, respect others. In any way possible. If you think you are smart and right, well in their mind, they are to. Be a better person, take time, try to understand. It is never too late. Even after you said some bad things about them and then realize you miss something that cause them to act that way and you started to understand even a little bit, open your heart, be brave, and go to them, help them. I myself need A LOT to learn. We all do. Alas, this post is written on my sense of thinking, if you have something to share, I'm more than happy to welcome you.

Imagine our mind are like branches and leaves on a tree...

So that's all for now, to all my friends who are facing their final exams, I pray the best for you guys, and girls, to those who are on their break, happy holidays, have fun, be sensible, be calm, be positive, I'm Asyraf Zai, signing out :)

Rabble rabble!

Ever got that feeling where you wanna tell someone something, the urge that is so great, you get all jumpy, hyped(not Hippo -._.-), and excited? Have you? Have you? :D

Well let's shatter that, and you are left with what? Disappointment, heart-broken, and stupidly sad. Not the intro you expected? That should work just fine. So let us continue :)

First week of holidays, yeaaayyyyy~ Well, "lucky" me, I was so expecting to continue my driving lesson and hopefully get my driving license this time around as mama told me, it turned out I'm starting next week. Bam! So there I was, uphilling(does this word even exist?) my way up to my house, thinking, what the heck am I gonna do now... First thing on the holiday list is now ruined(em okay just postponed).

So, in exchange, I was to look after my siblings and my 8 years old nephew. Yeaaayyyyyyy~~~ :D Well at least it ain't THAT boring, kids have so many things to ask, and sometimes you just hoped they could just "shush" for an hour. Seriously.. Every 5 minutes, "Eh, ni ape bang?", "Abang men game ape tuu??", "Boleh habis ke baca buku tebal2 ni??", "Kita gy swimming pool jom?!"... and etc. Why didn't you respond?? Oh, sorry, distracted. Ahem, moving on.

Few days ago, I decided it is time I should go and collect a gift a friend of a friend of mine posted, from across the sea(ceh so romantic :P) I thought it was as simple as taking a bus go to the post office I which thought was the right one, give the number for the parcel and gleefully hop on a bus and make my way back to my crib(ceh crib konon) with three annoying, cute and fun little monsters. Alas, when you expect sunny day until the evening, suddenly rain in the afternoon -_-".... I end up going around three post office in three different sections before founding the right one to claim my prize, em well, not mine actually, I'm just the middleman passing the item. Hm fon aku rosak ke ni? Uh sorry2, gangguan. So, after time and money spent, I got my hands on the brown parcel, phew.. It was stupidly tiring, but it was a great, and awesome feeling, accomplishing a mission(which supposed to be done long before this, sorry) And I got my reward as well! Yeay, thanks sahabat :) To the both of you, I don't know, good luck? Congratulations? Em, aha, semoga berbahagia keduanya ye :P hehehe.

Other than that, I spend my time scolding(with of compassion and love) my siblings and little nephew to study and all, catch up to my stacks of unread books(yeay finally Kane Chronicles!), swimming as frequently as I can(though not very successful), PSP-ing, watch anime an episode per day, trying(seriously, experimenting) on food to cook, and of course the endless and most dominant, the Eat n Sleep curse cycle :O hahahaha... Though I kept waking up at 4.55-4.57 each morning, hmm.. I notice that, there is a lot of change in me, on how I see things. I mean, things are not as simple as they were. Still, I just treat them simply, my head had enough of heavy thinking, my body shouldn't risk it, not yet. Heh.

Honestly, I want to write, a whole lot more, but, I can't, I still wanna tell that special someone first before writing it here, yes it is you Afifah.. It is youuuuuuuuuuuuu~~~ ~(-_-~)(~-_-)~ -_- :p

Huh, guess what, we never can get too much or enough of holidays. At start, we'll probably say, yeahhhh!!! holidayyyy!!! In the middle we'll be like, dude, I'm bored to death man... Then in the end all of us will be like, Noooooo~ I want my holidays backk~ There's still so much to do~ Meh, humans, we never know what we actually want/need and put them into their categories. I think I'm opening a new topic now, with no apparent reasons. Em, you can stop reading now, nothing is planned after this sentence anyway, just random sayings. Ever feel sick and the want to punch a kid so hard bcoz of their big headedness, blagak pandai n kerek nak mampos? Pnah? Well, once, we were in that place. Or maybe not, I vote that I have never been like that huh. The thing is, the reason why you should not add FB friends who clearly are kids far younger than you is that, the way they communicate, their way of speech, what do they talk of is pretty different from what we, a little bit more mature person does. I mean, seriously, my walls are fucked up by little kids so obsessed with kpop, I mean, damn, why did I even approved you?!

Here's one incident that I think blew me away. Ok so there's this little girl right(I don't even know her, maybe a friend of my sister or her junior, whatever). I think it was Friday last week(the day we returned from BTN) that night there's this Mnet Asian Music Award, or MAMA showing on the tv. This kid was seriously ANNOYING about it, soooooo fussy, kecoh, mak enon gile about B2ST being the best group la, the other group are shitty and so on, and saying things like "Lg baik pakai duit pgy tgk B2ST menang MAMA dr dok umah tgk Msia kalah dgn Indon nanti" and "B2ST is the best, Bigbang, Suju semua xleh pakai!!" Seriously, that is annoying, my news feed was crammed with those stuff, damn it. You wanna know something, at first, I wanna watch MAMA, but then I got sick with it, (and for another reason :3) I didn't watch it.
So, B2ST didn't win, BigBang does(Hell yeah!) Ikut ati nak je aku spam wall bdak tu puas2, tp sbb xnk jd cam bdak2, aku biar jela... Then diam terus bdak tu~ Alik2 bila msia menang, wah, terus tukar dp and cover jd harimau malaya, keluar lak status "x pntg pun MAMA sape yg mnang, yg penting Msia menang!" And I was like, whaaaaatt??? "Matang" gile sehhhhh~  Em ok disebabkan si comel afifah kacau sye type blog, so my idea to blog is stumped halfway, I'll stop here and blame the weird post on her then :P Hehe.

Happy Holidays~